Husbands Listen Up!!!!!

I DEDICATE THIS TO MY HUSBAND: I LOVE YOU CURTIS!!!!Ok there are some people wanting to know how Curtis and I have stayed together and how were so happy together?!?! Well here are some ideas for both parties.I'm sure my husband will comment on this and thats ok cause I want him to lol!!!! Ok here we go Pick ur battles REALLY come on LET HER WIN unless its going to kill you its easer to say ok or yes dear then to argue for an hour and womwn if he want to watch the BIG GAME/ FIGHT let him if you hate it that bad go to Walmart and WALK AROUND!!!! But really if you just try and spend some time with your husband and find out what he likes you might enjoy it also if not at least you tried.Ok husbands TAKE CHARGE order for your wifes it makes them feel important and it looks like you know her and what she likes.If you don't know ASK her!!!! You'd be surprised what YOU DON'T KNOW about her and all you haft to do is ask.Open the DAMN door COME ON!!!! How hard is it?!?! Do you know how it feels to come home to a home cooked meal well if you can't cook order pizza LOL just so she don't haft to cook for the night.Post on her wall on Facebook that you love her its simple but showes her ur thinking about her.After supper pick up her plate.Tell her she looks sexy or beautiful in her sweats.If she works when she comes in you take over and tell her to sit down and relax.This is just some stuff I like for my husban to do for me.We have been together for 20 years and we have had our problems and we have fought and I'm talking some good fights LOL.We live and we learn and and it always ends up ok.There is one thing that I do haft to say and that if you don't do but one of these things that I suggested here is the best one tell her every day thats shes sexy or beautiful and the 3 words that mean the most I LOVE YOU!!!! Thanks for reading and Good Night and Sweet Dreams!!!!!

Sad Thoughts but Happy Endings!!!!

I'm sitting here in bed watching Coming Home on Life Time. Fixing to watch Army Wifes I prase these men and woman god I don't know how they can go and leave there family and not know if there coming home. I sit here and cry like a baby on this show LOL. I just love to know that I can see my husband and kids but Gage wants to go into the Army and when that time comes I will be there every stept of the way and support him 100% if thats what he wants.Gage has made me so proud in the past couple of months I love bragging on him and love that he has made a HUGE improvment. Ok now Army Wifes are on time to cry some more!HOORAH!!!!I would love to say that to Gage and him to yell it back to me in about 2 years!!!! Thanks for Reading Good Night and Sweet Dreams!!!!

A Better Day!!!!

Well today was an ok day.It hurts to know I cant get ahold of Zach but I know its something that needs to be done. But what I was told today is that Sam's mom the kids mother where Zach is staying they went car shopping REALLY I'm sorry but this blows my mind I know there going to end up scrweing him over with this whole ordeal but what am I supposed to do and I know its NOTHING but this is going to bite him in his ASS!!!! I also found out today when Amanda is dew and its July 14th so I might be a grandmother to a baby girl if its Zach he will wake up or go to jail cause I WILL NOT PAY CHILD SUPPORT!!!! That baby will never want for anything but Zach will pay for child support!!!! I'm just ready to find out I'm ready for reality to SLAP him in the face!!!! But on another subject me and Gage are playing softball I'm soooo ready to do this I think were going to so much fun at this and this gets Gage out of the house LOL!!!! I talk a lot about Zach just because hes the one causing all the drama right at the moment LOL. But I have a WHOLE book about Gage lol I'll get on his past one day when I dont have anything to bitch about. But as it is right now Gage is doing GREAT!!!!! Weve got our Gage back and I couldn't be happier with him!!!! Well its time to get kids giong and and get to doing chores Thanks for Reading and Good Night and Sweet Dreams!!!!

WTF did I do?!?!?!

As I sit here in bed wrighting I'm woundering what I did so wrong raising my oldest son Zach???? I got fed up today and shut off his phone.This is the last thing I payed for with him.I took his car and now his phone,but now like always hes cussing me and telling me im not his mom and he doesn't want anything to do with me.I cry all the time over him i worry about him so mush I just need him to grow up and I dont know how do make him if hes got another family giving him whatever he wants these people are supposed to be getting him a car and now a phone WTF why do this for him he NEEDS A JOB!!!!!!! Come on parents do we not support each other and you know what no we dont were listening to the kids and the lies.I'm not going to pay his way and hold his hand anymore I had him a job at Briggs and he couldn't pass a drug test ARE YOU KIDDING ME do you know how many kids would LOVE for me to get them in a job like that with the money we make and the bennefits we got and the opportunities they offer? I'm handing you a GREAT JOB!!!! I dont understand he was not raised this way all joking aside Curtis and I work our ass off for all the BS we own I was happy in the 900sq house in the city lim of Benton we lived in but NO I want that IMAGE for my kids so weve got the big house and cars and toys and all the BS.But I would give it all up just to have my family back!!!! I know a lot of yall are having problems with your kids and i'm not the only one going though this but reall we as parents need to stick together. If you got a kid at your house just do me one favor call the parents to that kids they dont haft to know but there are 2 sides to every story!!!! This is to my one and only I LOVE YOU BABY BOY!!!! I'm still praying everynight we can get us back. Thanks everybody for reading and Good Night and Sweetdreams!!!!

An Amazing Night!!!!

Im sitting in bed with my sweetheart the love of my life. I'm just wrighting about tonight.Curtis took me to a place that had a Matradee WOW I've never been to a place like that. I haft to say I was not impressed with the food but the dessert was AMAZING!!!! Also the time Curtis and I spent together was GREAT!!!! I'm loving our time together I miss this time and he's doing so good with change lol no fast food lol. Weve had some trouble in the past like all couples but like always were back to making people sick on Facebook LMAO I think is cute and everyone needs cute sometime. Well he's pressing play on the movie I guess thats my cue to get off of here and snuggle IT'S A SCARY MOVIE!!!! Good Night and Sweet Dreams!!!!Oh and I just want to tell my husband I love you with all my heart and soul!!!!

Just a BS day!

Hello evevrybody my day started off BAD lol I stood in line at Shell for 20 min cause the other casher didn't want to ring people up the I walked out and spilled my coffee so that made it worse!!!!Then my day got a little better I got to tan at lunch and then came back to my class I'm in and we started wiring up a board and I was on FIRE I had 2 of the set up's asking me questions HELL YEA!!!! That made me feel GREAT!!!! I get a lot of bull shit form the guys I work with but I know its all in good fun and I hold my own but this I WILL NEVER LET THEM LIVE THIS ONE DOWN!!!! Then I get a phone call when I get home about Zach GED class so I get to call him.I just dread to talk to him he gives me so much CRAP I don't know what to do with him anymore he stayes in trouble and drinks and can't pass a drug test and just got out of jail over some crap at the school I dont like who he's living with but he's 19 he cuesses me and screams and tells me its all my fault I know its not but who else do I blame I raised him!?!?!?! I worrie about him so much it makes me sick to here sirens on the 4-lanes caues I pray thats hes not hurt or i worrie if hes has a roof over his head and if hes hungry but I've always told him that he can come home he has a bed and food here but I will not take how he talks to me.I know we all play the perfect family when were out and about and we keep all of our skeletons in that closet well I"M HERE TO OPEN OURS UP!!!! I'll tell you things about my kids that yours are doing but afraid to talk about!!!!If you have questions just email me or text me or call me or twitter me (babygirl42025) if you a kid or a parent no I dont have all the answers but I'm willing to help you find them!!!! Good Night and Sweet Dreams!!!!

My Long Day LOL

Don't have much to say. I've been a stupid class all day.Its been a very long day.8 hours in a class is just not for me lol.Ive got 2 more days of this silly class. I was soooo tired I kept falling asleep.But tomorrow will be better its mostly hands on so that means I'll be wiring up stuff OH LORD LOL!!!! Curtis is going back to work tonight so I.m sleeping by myself again GRRRRR I'm just getting used to him being home LOL but now back to midnights for him :"(. But on the upside we joined a gym tonight so I'm going to start tomorrow after I get off of work.I'm so ready to do this.I got some stuff I want to wright about but I dont know how to word it.I might start it in the morning.I just got some kid problems and I'm lost when it comes to fixing my soon to be 19 year old.So that will  be my blog tomorrow LOL.So I'm off to bed in a little while so Good Night and Sweet Dreams to All!!!!